Psychologist Carmen Botello Fuenteseca says parental jealousy about a child's closeness with grandparents is understandable; the bond can expand, not diminish, a child's support network. She describes grandparents as an added source of calm, play and affection.
Botello Fuenteseca says parents remain responsible for upbringing, boundaries and safety, while grandparents can offer a less pressured setting focused on play and affection. She says conflict can arise if grandparents override parental rules or become overprotective; clear communication and agreed boundaries can preserve parents' role while allowing a close grandparent-grandchild relationship.
Botello Fuenteseca says grandparents may become a judgment-free emotional refuge for teenagers as they develop independence. She argues that support from grandparents in childhood can provide a lasting sense of security and help build resilience and belonging in adulthood.
