Erika, filmed carrying food and her baby at a San Francisco Giants game, says viewers mistook the moment for evidence of an unequal marriage. In a Substack post, she called Ramses an amazing husband and father and said she chose to let him eat first.
Erika said she kept their daughter Anastasia with her after going to the bathroom in the fifth inning because the night was chilly. She asked Ramses what food he wanted; when she returned with brisket sandwiches and loaded fries, he cleared her seat and asked if she wanted to eat first. She told him to go ahead because she had eaten before the game, and said there was no argument about ketchup.
Erika said she suggested the game so Ramses could reflect after recently losing one of his oldest friends, a baseball player he had known since childhood. She said the couple share parenting and objected to strangers judging their marriage from a short clip. She also said some people found their personal information and told Ramses to kill himself.
